Personal Care

Maybe this sounds like a dumb question, but it seems the only men who care enough to approach me are already in serious relationships (even married). It’s frustrating and embarrassing, and I feel like a complete idiot when I find out about their girlfriend/wife. I want to be able to weed these guys out, and avoid them altogether.
I don’t exactly dress in a revealing way, but I do wear plenty of dresses and skirts. I also used to wear heels and black pantyhose, back when I worked in an office. I try to look feminine…could this be the problem?
Lately, I’ve been more outgoing, having random conversations with different guys to get a feel for what’s “out there.” Would it be too aggressive to ask about their relationship status? I just met them, so we haven’t known each other very long.

My dog eats cotton swabs(of course i don’t let her!)

I’m from Canada and in my family’s trips to the US I was sickened by the lack of cleanliness.
In a public bathroom in New York State the soap container had no soap. I’ve been in a total of six countries and I’ve never seen something like that before.
And then we went on a one-week trip to Washington DC. Now we’re back and and we’ve all got some virus that’s causing us to vomit all the time. I know that it’s a virus because all of us started displaying symptoms on separate days after the trip, even as much as four days after. I lost six pounds in two days.
Why is the US so dirty?

I shave in my groin area, and have for almost 20 years without an issue. However, I got what I think is an ingrown that was extremely red, swollen badly, blood and pus oozing out. I went to the doctor who put me on antibiotics. The swelling went down a little, still a hard surface on the skin. Blood and pus were oozing constantly, but as of today it has a white tip and looks like 2 small holes on top of an ant hill. It grosses me out but I’m wondering since the bleeding and pus have subsided does this mean the antibiotics are working? Doctor said if it gets worse I’ll have go see an ER to have it lanced.

What’s a good way to remove hair between my eyebrows? I’m not going to go to some salon, or buy something at a store. I want to be able to do it myself, with stuff I can find in my house. Right now I just shave it, but if there is another way to get rid of it that is semi-permanent, please recommend it.
Bonus points if you also know a good way to get rid of butt hair. :X

today i went to the doctors. today during my visit i was informed that i needed to get some shots. the doctor said that i would need 4 of them. what happened next made me real mad. this is the first time this doctor have given me shots. he told me that he was going to give me all my shots in my butt because it was easier. i never had any shots in my butt before, so when he said that i got scared. so he made me get up on the table and lay on my stomach for the first three vaccines, then for the last one he had me lay over his lap and it did that because he said that he wanted to make sure that i was still because the last one hurt way more then the other ones did. the whole time i was real scared. he said that he would be giving 2 shots in each butt check. he also said that the shots would sting and burn a little bit. when he stuck me with the needles it hurt real bad, the pain was real bad, i just wanted it to end. after it was over he put a cotton swab on the injection sites than he put a band-aid on top of the cotton swabs. that happened this morning, and my butt hurt most of the day i cried when he injected the last vaccine because it really really really hurt. he gave me a tetanus shot, hep A shot, mmr shot and hpv shot. the tetanus and mmr shot were given on my left butt cheek, and they were injected high on the butt and hey hurt a little bit. then i got the hep A and hpv shot in my right butt cheek. the hep A shot was injected up high on the butt and the hpv shot was injected into the lower part of my butt. the hpv shot hurt like hell, and like i said my doctor had me over his lap for this one because it hurt more and boy did it ever hurt real bad. i started to cry some when he gave me the hpv shot.
my questions are what can i do to help with the pain? second how long will my butt hurt? third why were the shots given in my butt instead of my arm? And fourth why did the shot that was given in the lower part of my butt hurt more than the other ones did?

About 3 months ago, I asked a question on here about something very serious. It said -
“I am a virgin still, but I masturbate once every day or two. If I were to masturbate while in the shower and then immediately clean with soap, or if I were outside of the shower first and wiped it off and THEN took a shower, is it possible for a girl to get pregnant if she were to go into that shower and use the bar soap three hours later?”
Now I have both anxiety and OCD, and they are at VERY high levels. So as much as I knew inside that my question was ridiculously and obviously untrue, I couldn’t help but beat myself up over it. It just really bothered me. The ‘what if?’ possibilities were the only thoughts going through my head, and it took me over.
Then, about a week after this, I noticed something. My sister, whom the question was mainly talking of, was showering in my MOM’S bathroom, rather than the one she always did it in. When I asked her why, she said it was because the other bathroom was gross. Now, that IS true. It is used by my brother and I, and we are both older teenagers lol. But it never seemed to stop her before…nor did the bathroom ever get that messy… so I’m not sure what to think. My sister sometimes uses my computer, and even though I don’t think I ever left Answers up, she would go to it if it was a recent page, because she’s nosy like that. So I am really disturbed by this. She’s only 12 years old so, so that makes it even worse. I feel like a terrible person, but I really am not. I only asked the question because of my anxiety, and guilt I feel over masturbation.
If she did see it, is it a HUGE deal? I feel so stupid. She hasn’t acted ANY different towards me at all, so I’m really not sure…

i use the Venus razor (i change it every month) but it seems to not shave off everything and it sometimes leaves stubble. should i use the hair removal cream by Nair instead? razors or waxing cream? help! thanks so much!

It is a scriptural fact and through archeology that the so called African American / Caribbean “Black Man / Woman” is the descendant of the biblical Israelites. “Descendants of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob who God said would be enslaved for 400 years.
The scripture in Deut 28:15-68 clearly explain the curses upon Israel for the breaking Yah’s laws and worshiping other G_ds. There are several prophecy’s throughout the old and new testament of Israel being scattered throughout the four corners of the earth. The temple that you see today in Jerusalem is prophecy fulfilled and it was destroyed in 70 AD by the Romans, which has scattered all the 12 tribes of Israel into Africa and then in later time as per prophecy mentioned in Deut 28:68, the Israelite s were sold into slavery…According to the prophecy mentioned in Deut 28:68, the only race of people who were sold into slavery by ships (bond men and bondwoman) were black people, as per scripture are the true descendants of the biblical Israelite’s
The so called Jews and/or Israelis that you see in Israel today are not the descendants of the Biblical Israelites, however does make you wonder why they don’t call them selves Israelites, becuase the truth is knowed that Israel became a state after 1948 through the assistance of the United Nations after world war 2. These so called Jews in Israel today are impostors who lie about being the descendant of the biblical Israelites. 92% of the white jews that you see today are Ashkanazi’s from the khazar empire, from the European region. They also believe in the Talmud, which is to them considered higher than the bible. This Talmud (oral law of Moses) is nothing but a book of hate and immorality. The Talmud is no where where mentioned in the Holy bible nor is it mentioned in theTanak (Torah) The word Judaism is also not mentioned in any of the scriptures or in the Tanak.
Judaism is a MAN MADE RELIGION that has adopted the laws of YAH
Genesis 15:13,14
And he said unto Abram, Know of a surety that thy seed shall be a stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them; and they shall afflict them four hundred years;
And also that nation, whom they shall serve, will I judge: and afterward shall they come out with great substance.
Acts 7:6 ,7
YAH (God) spoke to him (Abraham) in this way: ‘Your descendants will be strangers in a country not their own, and they will be enslaved and mistreated four hundred years.
But I will punish the nation they serve as slaves,’ YAH (God) said, ‘and afterward they will come out of that country and worship me in this place (Israel)
Revelation 2:9
I know thy works, and tribulation, and poverty, (but thou art rich) and I know the blasphemy of them which say they are Jews, and are not, but are the synagogue of Satan.
Revelation 3:9
Behold, I will make them of the synagogue of Satan, which say they are Jews, and are not, but do lie; behold, I will make them to come and worship before thy feet, and to know that I have loved thee.
Unfortunately, there are today people caling themselves “Black Israelites” who are racist and are misinformed about the true message of the Messiah. It’s all about showing love and teaching salvation to another human being. (no matter the what color the person is)…I have come across many white Hebrew Israelites that are aware of the truth (in America and in Europe) and I find that to be a beautiful thing…..Salvation is for everyone (Yah is no respecter of persons and he does not care what color the person is, as long as they aware of the truth and what he requires)….Also we do not tolerate evil or lies that is being taught from other religions or cults….The Jews that you see today in Israel is a lie and right now the truth is coming to the world about this lie….
They CANNOT provide any evidence through Archeology or through the Holy Scriptures on their claims on being the Chosen ones and/or being the descendants of the ancient Biblical Israelites..IF I’M WRONG..I would kindly ask anyone to please email me the evidence, especially evidence that can be provided through the HOLY SCRIPTURES (The Bible) or better yet, I would suggest for the individual to post this solid “STRONG”credible Evidence as it would be considered the “Best Answer” that would undoubtedly prove me and every Hebrew Israelite in this forum wrong, however the information that we have provided, is derived from the HOLY SCRIPTURES and through historical facts. It would be strongly suggested that this “STRONG”credible Evidence needs to be based on the same (WITHOUT claims, opinions or man made theory’s).

I have no job, because I am a house wife. He was in control of the money. He left me because he says I wasn’t taking care of his needs sexually. I tried to make him understand I have fibroids and when I have sex it cause pain. But he didn’t understand that. Many times I had sex with him in pain just to please him. He left this morning didn’t say anything..took his clothes and left me to care for 2 kids ages 3 and 7. I have no money. Are there any resources out that can help me get help and start to get on my feet again..I’m 30 years old when I met him I was 19 and he was 46..So yes he’s an older guy..I have been taking care of me so I look to him as my support…I know I should be caring for my kids but he is all I’ve known these 10 years..Is there any help out there?